Aug 5, 2008
Spouse problems?
This is something a lot of people don't like to talk about. I always wonder, am I the only one that fights with my husband? Why do we fight about anything, everything, and nothing? Sometimes all at the same time?! Is everyone else in the world in marital bliss? Why did I get the short end of the stick? So any of you having problems right now with your spouse, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! We argue constantly. Josh would not like it that I am posting this, but I am doing to to hopefully help others in the same boat. Sometimes it helps to talk about it. One thing going on in the world right now is money problems. I think the majority of us are short on that cold, hard cash that maybe we didnt have to worry about so much- not so long ago. And with money problems being the highest percentage rate for divorce, I can see why so many are struggling right now. My husband is amazing though. I fully love him with all my heart. I would never want to be with anybody else and when we are in a fight and I think well, somebody else would not treat me this way! I have to stop and think "who is telling me that?" You all know what I am saying. Those negative thoughts and feelings are from satan himself. He wants our family to be miserable and to tear us apart. He wants us to think that we can have better- the ole phrase "the grass is greener on the other side" A bunch of crap I tell ya. I am so happy to be married to Josh and although we do fight, making up is so fun to do. So try to take it easy on your spouse and on yourself too. Life could be so much worse, I promise you that. You dont realize what you have until you have something horrible happen in your life. Don't let it get to that! Hope this was able to help someone out there! It helped me just typing it.
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4 comments:
Trust me, you're not alone. EVERYONE goes through funk in their marriage. Some days it takes everything in my power to not want to punch my husband. I understand the blog venting helps. Good luck with whatever you have going on right now.
This too shall pass!
I am so glad you posted this. My biggest pet peave regarding blogs is that bloggers only post about how great their lives are, only a few have I seen that actually tell the truth and yours is one of them. It is so refreshing to hear because everyone knows that nobody's life is perfect but they don't want to admit that they have problems too. So thank you thank you thank you and of course you're not alone De, its just a part of life! LOVE YOU
I know exactly how you feel and what you are talking about! I truly believe that Nate and I are actually stronger because of some of our fights and things we have gone through together than maybe we would be if we were lets say the perfect couple who never fights... Seriously I think there is something almost everyday we could or sometimes do argue about. But if you love someone you stick by them no matter what!!! so trust me when I say you are not alone!
I'm glad I'm not the only one that blog vents! Its so true. Its nice to know other people go through the fighting and not just Brent and I. You're right about the Satan thing too. Thanks for venting!
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